{"id":5193,"date":"2020-03-16T04:00:36","date_gmt":"2020-03-16T11:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/betondinner.com\/?p=5193"},"modified":"2020-04-02T20:51:09","modified_gmt":"2020-04-03T03:51:09","slug":"routines-chores-for-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/betondinner.com\/routines-chores-for-kids\/","title":{"rendered":"Routines: Chores for Kids."},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n

Remember that time everything was canceled and we all stayed home?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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Except home with kids\u00a0\u2260 alone time, and\u00a0actually we’re all pretty disappointed about some canceled plans. I dealt with that by trying to hide and read my book, and the kids dealt with it by getting out All The Things and picking at each other all the livelong day, and I find that particular combination to be a bit…triggering. So we’re kinda pouty and rage-y over here, and Jay’s tryna hold us together, poor guy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

While many of our normal routines are suspended, we’re hanging on to a few around the house that are working for us: an easy cleaning schedule<\/a> and daily chores for the kids. (EVERY TIME I write “chores” I type “chorse” and I can’t stop and I don’t know why.)<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Over the years, I’ve tried a few things to get the kids consistently helping out in ways that are actually…helpful. But even when they’re tasks they can do well,\u00a0I’ve had trouble managing it. Whose turn is it to feed the dog? Ugh.\u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This year, I’ve been trying a new system. Aside from a couple chores that were already pretty habitual (making beds [okay only my oldest really and truly does this every day…and I’m the Very Worst Role Model], folding and putting away their own laundry, picking up toys), everyone has a morning job and an evening job that they do all week<\/strong>. Here are the rotations:<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Rotation #1:<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Morning – feed Lucy<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Evening – feed Lucy<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Rotation #2:<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Morning – empty the clean silverware from the dishwasher<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Evening – set the table (silverware and napkins – we usually serve plates in the kitchen)<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Rotation #3:<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Morning – Tidy up the bathroom\/wipe counter and sink as needed<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Evening – Tidy up the entryway (there’s a closet where shoes, coats, backpacks, etc. go)<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that’s it! I purposely chose jobs that everyone can do independently (my three-year-old needs a little help sometimes, but not a ton). Lucy always reminds us if she hasn’t had breakfast or dinner, so we never forget about jobs! The kids typically watch a show while I fix dinner, so we’ve been doing evening jobs right before that and there’s a nice combo of incentive and peer pressure (when your jobs are done, then we’ll turn on the show).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I was pretty pleased with how it was going and how little management it has taken on my end, but I had a moment of utter victory when the other day Jay and I went out in the afternoon and my mom was watching the kids and getting them started on dinner. They got home from the park, and with no prompting they all flew around and did their evening jobs!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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